SOMETHING IN YOUR LIFE

World in my mind - Something in your Life - Lots of theories exist regarding the power of positive thinking. The cosmic ordering wish is one such theory: place an "order" with the cosmos and wait for it to be fulfilled. Using this is one of the avenues for manifesting your dreams.

As with any method of making your dreams a reality, you need to be clear about what those dreams are. You cannot ask for something in your life if you do not have a picture in your mind of what it is. You need to have clearly in your mind what it is that you are trying to manifest.

Once those goals or dreams are clearly pictured, you must ask for them to made a reality. It is not the same thing as prayer to a supreme being. It is putting in a request to the cosmos or universe for the things that you wish to have and how you want your life to be.

All theories such as this are surrounded by controversy - people tend to either believe that they work or are skeptical about them. But there are thousands if not millions of people who believe that thinking positively can help you change your life. The idea is that the cosmos is happy to give you all that you desire, you just need to ask for it clearly.

Many of us have a hard time in accepting these kinds of theories. But there does not seem to be much to lose by trying it out for yourself. You can certainly benefit from being clear about what your goals are in life. It is the only way you can come up with a plan of how to achieve them. It's World in my mind.

Do Brides Always Carry a Purse?

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To clutch or not to clutch is often a question we're asked when brides are in our shoe room.  How many brides actually carry a clutch, purse, or handbag?  The answer is about half.  Half of our brides opt to carry a matching accessory to hold their goodies and half of them strut into the receptions sans hand bag.  What do they put in these bags?

*Lipstick
*Compact Mirror
*Powder Compact
*Hanky or Tissues
*Camera
*Cell Phone

...to name a few.  Ultimately, the choice is up to you.  I love bags, so when presented with the option to buy another one, I say go for it.  If you're unsure about the "rewearability" factor of a white or ivory bag, then grab one in a coordinating color or a fun metallic like silver or gold.  No need to worry about how to get it from your car to the head table.  Your wedding coordinator or Maid of Honor will be more than happy to help you out.

Check out more clutches and handbags for your wedding here.

Written by ~ Kirsten

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FIND WHAT DESTROYING YOUR MARRIAGE

World in my mind - Find what destroying your marriage - Money problems are one of the main reasons a marriage can get into problems. It is hard to keep a marriage happy when all you seem to think about is how to pay the bills and keep a roof over your head.

However, you can be happy without being wealthy as long as you manage the financial side of your marriage sensibly and don't get into debt for things you don't really need. Money problems in a marriage are often caused not by a lack of money but how one of the marriage partners spends it.

The sad fact is that money to some people is there to be spent no matter what the circumstances. They have no thought of tomorrow and need constant gratification in the form of spending. They are wasteful with money and buy things that are not really needed. In fact, spending money is like an addiction to some people as gambling is to others.

Marriage and debt problems.
When money is short, the reckless partner often borrows money at high rates for non-essentials because they want something and simply do not think or even care about how much it will cost them. They want something, they want it now, and nobody is going to stop them.The reckless spender is like a gambler who goes on tilt when he is losing, out of control and emotionally driven.

A financially inept partner will also get high-interest loans that they really can't afford because they haven't planned for the inevitable money emergencies that crop up now and then. Paying high interest on loans will only increase the debt and it can rapidly become a mountain that will never be reduced.

Poor Money Management
Reckless financial management like this in a marriage has a habit of developing into a major cause of friction. The fact is, some people just don't know how to manage money properly and this eventually causes all sorts of problems for the marriage. Mounting debt problems cause lots of stress and marital discord.

When one partner is haphazard with finances and the other one is more sensible then the difference in the way they handle money comes to the fore and causes trouble for the marriage.

The partner who is more careful with money sees their spouse wasting money and running up debts all over the place. However, when he or she tries to talk about the money problems they get called a miser just for trying to bring their finances back under control. Not being able to talk frankly about financial problems with your spouse can cause simmering tensions that will eventually explode into an argument.

Money as a source of control in a marriage.
They say having control of the money is like having power and one of the partners often takes charge of the finances as a source of control in the marriage. In fact, this is a favourite tactic of a control freak. Holding the purse strings in a marriage is one of the many ways they exert control over their partner. They dictate how the money is to be spent and won't allow any say in the matter.

The problem with this is that when one partner handles all the finances without letting their spouse have a say about it then conflict is almost inevitable. Where money is concerned, both partners should contribute when it is affecting their marriage negatively.

Conclusion:
There is no doubt that money problems can cause misery in a marriage and when this is a result of the behaviour of one of the partners this has to be changed before it brings the marriage to its knees, both financially and emotionally. It may not be easy to do this, but it has to be done because, like an unpaid debt, the problem will only get bigger as time goes by. It's World in my mind.

Nautical Inspired Jewelry

Love the deep blue sea?  Try on some nautical inspired jewelry with class.  Perfect for sea lovers or the romantic couple getting married on a yacht!  The Jeweled Moon necklace's deep blue and green crystals will sparkle like the ocean when paired with just about any dress.  Designed by Anne Koplik, $42.

A long Sugar Ball Lariat is simple and subtle in gold or silver, $36.

Slip matching cocktail rings on the fingers of all your "ship mate" bridesmaids, $24.

Go completely thematic with Ship Anchor Earrings, $39

Or stay subtle with navy blue drop earrings, $39

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DO YOU BELIEVE IN LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT

In the classical world, the phenomenon of "love at first sight" was understood within the context of a more general conception of passionate love, a kind of madness or, as the Greeks put it, theia mania ("madness from the gods"). This love passion was described through an elaborate metaphoric and mythological psychological schema involving "love's arrows" or "love darts," the source of which was often given as the mythological Eros or Cupid, sometimes by other mythological deities (such as Rumor). At times, the source of the arrows was said to be the image of the beautiful love object itself. If these arrows arrived at the lover's eyes, they would then travel to and 'pierce' his or her heart, overwhelming them with desire and longing (love sickness).
The image of the "arrow's wound" was sometimes used to create oxymorons  and rhetorical antithesis con "Love at first sight" was explained as a sudden and immediate beguiling of the lover through the action of these processes. "Love at first sight" occurs in numerous Greek and Roman works. In Ovid's Metamorphoses, Narcissus becomes immediately spellbound and charmed by his own (unbeknownst to him) image. In Achilles Tatius's Leucippe and Clitophon, the lover Clitophon thus describes his own experience of the phenomenon: "As soon as I had seen her, I was lost. For Beauty's wound is sharper than any weapon's, and it runs through the eyes down to the soul. It is through the eye that love's wound passes, and I now became a prey to a host of emotions..."  "Love at first sight" was not, however, the only mode of entering into passionate love in classical texts; at times the passion could occur after the initial meeting or could precede the first glimpse.

Another classical interpretation of the phenomenon of "love at first sight" is found in Plato's Symposium in Aristophanes' description of the separation of primitive double-creatures into modern men and women and their subsequent search for their missing half: "... when [a lover] ... is fortunate enough to meet his other half, they are both so intoxicated with affection, with friendship, and with love, that they cannot bear to let each other out of sight for a single instant." Do you believe in Love at First Sight?

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HOW TO GET HIM BACK EVEN HE HAS TO MOVED ON

If you are wondering if it is possible to get your boyfriend back even if he appears to have moved on and is currently in a relationship with another woman, the answer is a resounding yes. It is still possible to get him back if that is your goal.

There are many steps between here and holding him in your loving arms again and each relationship is a bit different but if you truly love him and wish to get him back you certainly can. This scenario plays out every day where a couple splits up and one or both partners go their separate ways only to realize that they do love each other and wish to be together. Perhaps you have seen this happen in the lives of your friends or your own life at some point?


To improve your chances of winning him back you should avoid all emotional displays. Although your heart may be breaking at times and you might feel anger, jealousy and actual physical pain in your chest when you think of the man you love with another woman, resist the temptation to act on these impulses. Don't call him or text him or email him telling him that you still love him or that you want him back. You will get your chance to do that face to face someday when he comes back to you… and you will have the satisfaction of being able to tell him that you loved him enough and wanted him to be happy even if that meant that he was with someone else.

Your entire goal should be to try to keep from having him completely close the door on your relationship by appearing crazy, emotional or needy. The two of you have a history together full of both good and bad memories. In time, the bad memories will fade and only the good ones will remain if you give him the time and space to sort through his own feelings. If you are nagging him or calling him all the time you will appear needy and a little crazy which will only solidify his opinion that you aren't the one for him.

Instead, only allow him to see the happy, fun, upbeat side of you. Allow your relationship to build once again. Create or recreate the friendship that you once had. After all, the two of you were probably pretty close and knew each other pretty well, right? The loss of that friendship will be something that he will want back again… it is definitely something that is missing from his life. Strive to become the friends that you once were together and you will improve your chances of winning him back tremendously.

Also, given time he will start having issues with his new relationship. Every relationship has issues so there is little doubt that sooner or later he will have a moment of frustration and reach out to you looking for the familiarity of your friendship. Be his friend. Tell him the truth. If he's doing something stupid, for example, or just doesn't understand women let him know about it. You will be creating a deeper friendship based upon truth, honestly and trust… which will lead to a more loving relationship based upon caring and true love.

Eventually, he will realize that you are the woman for him and when things start to go wrong with his new girlfriend you will be the first thought that comes to his mind. Just remember how important it is to keep your loving emotions in check. There will be time for love and affection once he realizes that he does truly love you and decides to come back to you. Until that day dream of what it will be like to finally get him back and hold him in your loving arms again.

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HOW TO SELECT UP LADIES

Do you wish to know the top ideas to select up ladies? Then here is often a simple guideline that might be in a position to aid you out. You ought to recognize that in get to become able to pick up ladies much more effectively, you can find some rules that need to be followed.

1 - Usually exude confidence. Ladies are naturally not drawn to guys that they can sense fear or weakness in. this means that no matter how gorgeous or successful a woman is seen to become, never ever be intimidated by her.


2 - Be observant of her actions and speech patterns. These are the two foremost tell tale signs that may let you in on what a woman likes or dislikes. Prior to you make your move observe her closely to ensure that you will be able to conjure up a far better pick up line that she will definitely respond to.

3 - Resist the urge to talk about yourself. If there was one thing that ladies absolutely hated about males is that guys usually use bragging as a form of bragging. No matter how proud you're of your new car, please don't bring it up any time within the conversation, it would be finest if you just surprised her with it if she lets you take her house.

Now that you know the best tips to choose up girls, make sure that you just follow via with all of these. It's your ticket to hooking up with all the gorgeous ladies that may surely be the envy of all your friends.

Spunky Pearl Jewelry

Who says pearls have to be traditional?  These fun baubles are tradition with a twist.  Perfect for an engagement part or to adorn your rehearsal dinner dress.  Our Jolie Collection is all fun.  Above, an asymetrical crystal bow adorns this two stranded pearl necklace, $36.

One strand bracelet, $29

4 Strand Bracelet, $36

Single strand necklace of mixed pearl and crystals, $36.

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HOW TO GET BACK WITH YOUR EX-HUSBAND

World in my mind - Did you realize even before the divorce papers were signed that you wanted to get back with your ex husband? You probably thought it was too late. Here's some good news: many women even after the divorce is finalized reconcile with their ex husbands and go on to have a wonderful relationship with him

Before you jump back in to the relationship you need to make sure that the reasons that the marriage ended can be overcome. Unless those problems can be dealt with the odds of you making it are very slim. But if you know in your heart that you're ready here are a few tips that will help:

Learn how to talk to men. Men look at almost everything in a larger picture and in black or white. "It's broke, so I'll fix it." If you ask a man how his day was you generally get a one or two word answer. Maybe a short overview of the day.

The reason he doesn't ask you how your day was is because you will go on and on about every little detail of the day. Who said what to whom? Men are not interested in gossip or small talk and once they start to hear it they will turn you off. Learn to speak to him in a way he understands.

Accept his apology. When a man does another man wrong, they apologize and it's over. When a man accepts an apology, he has forgiven the other person. When your husband apologizes to you and you accept it he expects the conversation to be done. He does not want to be reminded of it over and over again.

Realize he can not read your mind. He does not know what you want unless you come out and tell him. He probably doesn't even know you want him back. Men like to be told what you need from them in the relationship. Especially in the bedroom.

Many men will leave a relationship because they are positive they are not satisfying a woman in the bedroom because they get no reaction from her positive or negative and they feel they have no idea how to please her. Don't assume that he knows you're happy with your sex life or that he somehow magically should know what you want if you're not happy with it. Tell him.

It's not his fault you're bored. You may have noticed that men are rarely bored. It's because by nature they are always looking for new challenges, new skills to learn, or to complete some new project around the house.

If you do nothing but go to work, come home, plop yourself on the couch and complain about work, you're going to be bored whether he's there or not. Either learn to love some of the things your husband does, or find some hobbies or interests of your own.

Make some effort to keep the relationship fresh. If you manage to get him back by again being that exciting woman he fell in love with the first time around, know that if you let things go back to how they were, there's a good chance this will end up in another breakup.

Obviously for the relationship to truly work, your husband will no doubt have to make some changes of his own, but there's nothing that you can do but work on the issues from your end. I believe these tips will help. It's World in my mind

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DO YOU BELIEVE

World in my mind - Do you believe - There are times in our life when things will happen and we wonder where is God? Does he not know or understand what is happening to us? I have experienced a mother whose only child was murdered.

There was yet another family whose only child was about to be taken away from them because they had no place to stay. Both families found it difficult to trust God in their hour of greatest darkness. I remember standing outside of the location where the mother's son was killed and we were praying to God. Our prayer was simple, God, we do not understand why you allowed this to happen, But we trust you. We know that you are too wise to make a mistake. You see we could not trace his hand in these events, but we trusted his heart.

Many of us want life to make sense. The truth is there will be times in your life when life makes no sense at all! How can a parent who has done all the right things still have a child who turns to drugs? What about the person who has dedicated 20 years to a company and one day unexpectedly this job is gone?

God works on a different timetable than our minds comprehend. Many of us want what we want, when we want it and most of the time that is NOW! It is difficult to trust in a plan that requires us to surrender all control. In order to trust in God, you must totally surrender your will, your ideas, your desires, and your future in to God's hands. If you don't believe that God loves you fully and really does have your best interests at heart and desires the very best for you, trusting Him is going to be extremely difficult. God is calling us to believe what seems impossible. Ask him to help you believe.

Most of us have a tendency to claim trust in God. However, at the first sign of any difficulty or trial, we think that God must not love us because He is allowing this difficulty to happen. The trial is exactly what God is using to test the level of trust that we have in Him. This is not for His benefit but for ours. This is to show us the true accuracy of our trust meter. Things are always the most difficult when we can't see the other side of our troubles

I received an email from a friend which simply said: "I will handle all your problems today. God" And here are a few reminders that if you can't trace his hand, just trust His heart:

*  Believe in God.
* Believe in God's abilities.
* Believe in God's willingness to help you through a tough time
* Believe God can and will work things out for good

The Scripture reminds us that God will show up and take care of us. He has a plan for our lives, plans to take care of you, not to abandon you, to give you the future you hope for. God encourages us to call on him and when we pray he will listen. When we come looking for Him, he promises we will find Him and we will not be disappointed.

Do You Believe? Trust your heart voice. It's World in my mind.

Pearl & Vintage Crystal Bridal Jewelry

We're always searching for unique, one of a kind pieces for brides.  We love vintage pieces mixed with classic pearls and these one of a kind vintage elements are set in luxurious silk, satin, and Swarovski pearls.  Nothing is more sophisticated on a bride than a timeless piece that can continue to be passed down for generations to come.  Above, the Beau Bracelet, two strands of pearls adorn this crystal baguette bow.  $179.

Mila Necklace, $269

The Fig Leaf  Headband set with a stunning asymmetrical flower, $169.

Asymmetrical pearl necklace, Eleanor, $289.

Guinevere three strand bracelet, $249.

Fiona four strand bracelet with an emerald centered crystal sunburst, $199.

Vintage pieces always sell fast!  Take home one you love today, or bring us your own vintage piece and we'll create something new just for you.

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WHAT KIND OF MEN THAT WOMEN FIND SO ATTRACTIVE

Besides looking good, what are the male attributes that women find so attractive? Really, what do women want in a man?

This above questions must have been pondered upon by every straight man since the begining of time. Have you thought of that?

Ok, I concede that while nobody could in anyway answer this question with anything resembling a complete answer, there are certain traits and attributes of a man which women find very appealing that are generally agreed upon by most psychologists and as well as from women themselves. This can give us, the mostly clueless male species some good insights into the female mindset.


So what do women want in a man? High up on the list is confidence. In a woman's eye, a confident man is a very appealing man. What I mean is genuine confidence. Let me explain. You see, most men either have very little confidence in themselves or carry around a false sense of confidence in their attempts to impress women.



When approaching a gorgeous girl that they have never met before, most men will just freeze up somewhat or some will strut over to her with chests puffed up and peacock feathers all flustered to impress her with corny pick up lines like, "Can I buy you a drink?" kind of false bravado. Get the idea?

Women want to see real confidence in a man's behavior and attitude. They are very sensitive to true confidence instead of false bravado. Even if you are a good actor and can fake your confidence pretty well at first, any woman you approach and begin spending time with will soon learn of your "true colors" very quickly.

Having confidence is much more than thinking that you are the most attractive man on earth or believing that you can achieve certain objectives. A genuinely confident man will share his opinions without being argumentative, enjoys intellectual debates and is always open to new ideas because they are so truly confident that no new ideas can scare them. Being geuninely confident is thought to be perhaps the most attractive attribute a man can have in attracting women.

Next on the list women find attractive in a man is, affection. Showing affection to a woman is not just a matter of physical touch or emotional connection, but is a complex mixture of the two elements. Women want to know that they are being appreciated and this comes through affection, closeness and good bonding of trust and feelings.

So do learn a woman's likes and dislikes and direct your actions and behaviour to these ways. Of course, this does not mean mean that you have to be too compromising. It is a matter of give and take. To give and take is not a 50-50 issue, or that you are always giving to her. It is that sometimes you give 75 and sometimes you take 75. Otherwise, by giving too much, you will become a wussy (wimp) in her mind. A wussy man is certainly not an attractive man and is a turn off to most women.

An example of a small gesture that shows affection would be something like you wanted to go to take her to a sports game, but she wanted to watch a movie, so you compromised and take her to the movie instead. After the movie, you take her home and let her know that you are going to the sports game now and she will really appreciate that.

However, do not compromised too much and often. As I said, it is a give and take matter and she will know it and appreciate it. Any pains you take to show true affection will be well rewarded and she will feel special and appreciated. That a very powerful true attraction.

The next attribute women find very appealing in a man is that the man must be able to offer her a sense of security. Women these days are very independant and it is now no longer true that a man must provide everything for his woman. So being able to provide security these days means much more than just bringing home the bread and bacon or standing up for her and protecting her.

Your woman will want to know that you are going to work at least as hard as she is to get the good things in life for her and for your eventual family. If she finds that you are constantly job hopping or cannot stay on a job for long, chances are that she will drop you like a bombshell once another man who can give a sense of security shows up at the door!

Although most women do not need to take money from their men anymore, it is still very crucial for a man to prove that he can provide when the situation arises.

Of course there are many more male attributes and traits that are appealing and attractive to women. The above are just some examples for you to ponder over about what type of men women like.

THE WAY TO POSITIVE YOUR SELF ESTEEM

World in my mind - The way to positive your self esteem - Have you ever wondered why positive self-esteem seems so natural and effortless for some people, while others struggle daily with feelings of self doubt and inferiority' Would you believe that the solution to achieving a greater sense of confidence and positive self-esteem could be as easy as changing the way you speak to yourself?


The thoughts and words that circulate through one's mind each day can have a powerful effect on their self-esteem. For example, when a person constantly doubts their ability in a given situation, uttering phrases like 'I'm not good enough, smart enough or worthy enough,' they may actually begin to believe that it's true. Without realising it, they may be sabotaging their chances of success and self-realisation before they've even had a chance to try.

Positive Self Esteem and Meditation
One way to combat the problem of negative self-talk and promote positive self-esteem is through meditation. Meditation, a component of many religions throughout the world, especially in the Far East, is a relaxation technique in which the practitioner attempts to move beyond negative, reflexive thinking by clearing the mind of everything, except for what is happening in that precise moment. By freeing the mind of the regrets of the past and the worries of the future, meditation allows people to focus only on the present to achieve a greater sense of focus and self awareness.

The meditative act has two main components: focused, relaxed breathing and a mantra of positive self affirmations.

* Breathing. In meditation, practitioners are taught to focus only on their breathing and nothing else, helping both the body and mind to relax.

* Positive Affirmation. While the body is relaxed, and the mind is completely blank, positive affirmations can be used to replace former thoughts of negativity and self doubt. A simple slogan, such as 'I am worthy,' or 'I am powerful,' repeated over and over while in this relaxed state, can do wonders for self confidence and positive self-esteem.

As you can see, sometimes attaining positive self-esteem can be as simple as the words and thoughts that regularly pass through your consciousness. If you struggle regularly with feelings of self doubt, and are looking for a way to replace these thoughts with more productive and self-affirming ones, meditation can be a great tool.

It's World in my mind.

Tote Bag Gifts for Bridesmaids

All of us at The Left Bank love jewelry and think it makes a perfect bridesmaid gift, but if your girls already have tons or you decided they don't need to wear matching jewelry, what should you give them?  How about stylish and fun tote bags?  There's always an occasion for a great bag!  These are our top five picks for perfect carry all bags to gift your bridesmaid.  Nothing says thank you better than a fun and functional gift they're sure to use long after your wedding is over.

1.  Our super popular Polka Dot Bag is one of my favorites.  Available in six different colors with your choice of one initial embroidered free in a variety of thread colors.  These wooden handled bags are big enough for beach towels, books, and just about everything else.  Measures 18.5" by 16.5".  $39 each.

2.  The Weekender Tote Bag is also large enough for almost all your life essentials and features a zippered top to keep it all from falling out.  Natural cotton canvas is trimmed in black and monogrammed with up to three initials in your choice of 11 thread colors.  Gift this multi-purpose bag to the ladies early and they can pack all their wedding weekend goodies in it.  Better yet?  Get one for yourself too!  The weekend bag is also available with "Bride" written on it, complete with a Swarovski crystal dotting the "i."  Measures 22" x 16" x 6".  $36.

3.  This cute Damask Tote Bag  is fashionable and functional.  Double handles, interior pocket, key chain holder a fully lined damask fabric interior, and a cute ribbon tie round out this stylish option.  Chose from seven thread colors to embroider a monogram or single initial on the front.  Measures 18" x 12" x 8.5".  $42.

4.  If you're looking for something shiner, then the Buckle Tote Bag is for you.  Black and white leatherette bag with adjustable straps and silver buckles makes it perfect for almost anyone.  Embroidered with your choice of one to three initials in black thread.  Measures 16" x 13" x 4".  $38.

5.  Having a beach wedding or weekend girls trip?  The Striped Canvas Bag is perfect!  Reminds me of a weekend at the beach, blue stripes and extra long handles hold flip flops, sunscreen, towels, and spare shoes in one place.  A big front pocket can be embroidered with a monogram or name (up to 12 characters)  in six different thread colors.  Measures 13" x 7" x 25".  $34.

And of course we totally support your need to buy one for yourself!  You can never have too many bags.

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HOW TO WIN BACK YOUR CHEATING WIFE

World in my mind - How to win back your cheating wife - While your first instinct upon learning that your wife has been cheating on your might be to kick her to the curb it's not always the right decision to make. In many ways leaving your cheating wife is the easy solution.

You may hope that in time you'll be ready to move on. You might cling to the belief that once she's out of sight she'll be out of mind. That doesn't mean you'll be able to get over her that easily. Your best bet might be to find a way to win your cheating wife back and make her love you even more.

The good news is that she probably hasn't stopped loving you just yet. Most women don't fall in love fast nor do they fall out of love fast. Depending on how long the affair has been going on chances are good that you are still in good shape to win her back from the other man if that is what you have in mind.

Where should you begin?

Where have You let Her Down in the Marriage?
No marriage is perfect. You probably know what she wants you to give her that you haven't been delivering. If not, you need to sit down with your wife and have a long heart to heart conversation. She may not even be able to put a specific name to what he is doing for her that you do not but she probably knows how he makes her feel that is different. You must find out how to make her feel better than he does if you really want to win her back.
Lavish her with Your Appreciation

Most women really want very little from their husbands. There is this huge and largely incorrect myth floating around that women are complicated. They really aren't. Women are simple. They just don't always express themselves in a manner that makes sense to men. It's the whole "she said; he heard" thing. Your wife wants to feel like you appreciate what she does for you. She wants you to acknowledge her efforts and thank her for them. She works hard to give you a nice place to come home to. She wants you to be comfortable and happy and does a lot to make sure you are. When you take those things for granted she feels unappreciated, used, and in some cases misused. Ultimately she feels unloved by you.

Then, another man comes along and flatters her, shows some small degree of appreciation for her, and completely sweeps her off her feet. If you give her all this at home he will have no hold over her. It's World in my mind.