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AFTER DIVORCE, IS IT POSSIBLE DATING? FOR MEN

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World in my mind - Beginning to date after a divorce can be stressful for a lot of men, but look on the bright side. It can be a lot of fun too. Let's face it, you've been married for a while and the marriage obviously was a drag otherwise you wouldn't be divorced and dating again.

Remember how much fun you had dating in your past? It's time to relive those memories. But the playing field is a little different now. Women come on a little stronger these days, so don't be too alarmed.

3 tips to help you date after divorce and how to get women to like you almost immediately:
  1. Men typically think that touching a woman when they first meet is forbidden. However, that's just not true at all. You'll want to have a good first impression while creating a bond immediately. You can do this by a simple touch. When you introduce yourself to her or when you're talking to her, softly and casually touch the outside of her right arm. The outside of her arm is not an intimate spot, so she won't feel uncomfortable. However, she will know that you're interested and that you're a personable guy. Go ahead and try it. You'll be pleasantly surprised with the results.
  2. After you strike a conversation with her, you'll want to maintain physical contact with her throughout the conversation. This can be done in a stealth way so she doesn't think you're a weirdo. You don't want to be too pushy or too obvious about this now either. For example, when you two share a laugh, simply put your right hand on her left arm while you are both laughing. Or if she needs directions to the restroom while you're on a date, put your arm around her and swivel around towards the direction of the bathroom while holding her close to you. Then while you're holding her, simply point past any people or obstacles in the direction she needs to go.
  3. Don't forget the contact close. A contact close is similar to a good-night kiss. Here, when you finish exchanging phone numbers or arranging a time for a first date, simply give her a side hug. A side hug is when you put your arm around her and pull her towards your side. This way she won't feel uncomfortable. A front hug is a little too personal. But a side hug is just enough for you both to feel a sexual attraction without being creepy. And as long as she feels some sort of sexual attraction, she'll want to see a lot more of you.
Dating after the divorce can be a lot of fun, so go out and enjoy yourself. Don't worry if you don't get the girl on the first try, if you dig her then keep her in your sights and don't give up on her. Remember, Rome wasn't built in a day and your new date life won't be either. It's World in my mind.

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