CHILDREN WITH AUTISM

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Children with autism in their daily life that tend to show unusual behavior with children in general. They are busy with himself, his eyes unfocused, temperamental, like say the words that are not understood and only like one kind of toy.

Six characteristics of existing disturbances in children with autism namely social interaction, communication (verbal and non verbal), emotional behavior, the pattern of play, sensory and motor disorders and delayed development.

Although the results of studies say 80% of children with autism have low intelligence in which they were unable to communicate but we can recognize the symptoms early on. On the condition of autistic symptoms with low intelligence can be seen from the condition of children who could not speak at all (non-verbal), their behavior tends to hurt yourself, just focus on one activity and not interested in many activities. This condition as a low function autism.

There are 8 of therapy can be used on people with autism, among others : Educational Treatment, developmental approach, treatment and education and related communication, biological treatment, speech language therapy, improving communication, intensive autism services and therapies that are sensory.

Among 8 kinds of therapy above, which are widely used in Indonesia is educational approach treatment which includes the principles of education that exist in Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA).

Autis is :  Always Unique Totally Interesting Mysterious. I think the parents should not give up and keep give the best treatment and education, coz they're blessing get autis child, it's not a curse. That's Love from God in order to make us more patient in raising and Loving care of the children.

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VOICED MUSIC MELODY

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rain in the morning
music on tv shows could also brighten the day
music can bring happiness

sadness
and inspiration
voiced music melody
melodies that floated and touched every heart
music and songs are part of an integral and inseparable

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W FOR WORRIED

World in my mind - W for Worried - Do u ever feel worried? of something that not even yet happen. I think that's too much, and if we feel worried and afraid that something bad will happen..everything could happen. We have to catch our positive thinking, and starts to think that nothing bad will happen.

No matter what would happen, we have treating ourself to get steady, and ready of every situation that might be unpredictable. Calm down and think with cool head! There is always a way up.

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BETWEEN TWO

Hi Welcome back! It's World in My Mind, here you can find Love, Poems, Love Poems, Love Tips, Breakup, and more.

Between two.
When you facing so much choice and looks doubt to choose which one that you will take. First you must believe that from that so much choices there is one the best for you. Keep on the right track and follow your heart voice, coz you know what the best choice that you should to take no matter what
the risks that will you deal with it.

Life is full with so much choices, so choose wisely and you'll know that facing the things that you don't wanna, facing the problem is the best way that we could do instead of runaway and try to hide from what we deal it.. the question is until when we could avoid it and hide? Keep on spirit today to spreading Love to others, and make difference.

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RAIN DROPS

World in My Mind - Rain drops, and it won't stop all the day.. hurt, and suddenly missing home so much. Far away from home, far from love, and there is no hugs anymore. Here just an ordinary people, like the other ordinary girl.. who made mistakes.

Might be becomes a man could be more stronger to lift all the weight who carry on the shoulder all alone. Rain drops, and the lightning scared me off, rain drops live sofly through eyes, i know why they're anger.. but nobody's really care enough. It's easy to end life, but i choose to . Becomes a girl and felt love is the beautiful thing that never had before. Let this place becomes my special place, coz u'll always in my heart.. i won't stop to love u even i'm nothing to u, as i'll never stop being here. Thank you!

Rain drops..

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SMILE TO THE WORLD

World in my mind - Smile to the world - Smile and the world will smile to you.. isn't that true? Sometimes the real world more cruel than we imagined, other people struggle in life battle today.

I learned that, eventhough we tired, smile could enlightening people who need that, sincere smile could make people feel better today, smile eventhough
everything is going bad, smile to people eventhough feeling pain inside, eventhough it seems that everything unfear, eventhough afraid of something that would gonna happen then.

Smile is like a virus.. spreading fast than you imagined, sincere smile to people, to friends, strange people... as long as not too much, and you'll get more than just a smile back. Let's spread spirit to people, and smile could affected people, surround, and give positive feedback for us. It's World in my mind.

STOP TRYING TO GET HER BACK - IF YOU ARE STILL IN LOVE WITH HER

If you want to get your old girlfriend back you need to put your emotions away and stop crying. You need to find some strength and start to think about what you are going to do to get her back. Most men in this emotional state just fly by the seat of their pants as they try to get the love of their life back. They will tell their ex everything that they are feeling, even if their ex does not care. Men will go through all kinds of emotions like, sadness to desperation. Do I need to stop trying to get her back if you really want your ex girlfriend back you need to take control of your emotions.


Begging and crying will not get your old girlfriend back. No matter how sad and depressed you are, this will not work. She is not going to just take you back because you keep calling her sobbing and telling her she is the one for you and you can not live without her. Women hate this kind of emotions in the man she is involved with, they do not find this appealing at all. If you are trying to push your ex farther away, just keep the emotional train on this track, do I need to stop trying to get her back.

In order to get your old girlfriend back you will need to do things that she does not expect you to do. She will expect you to get upset with her over the breakup, so do not get upset. She will be waiting for you to call and beg for a second chance, so do not call her. She will also think that you are sitting around mourning over the breakup, so do not do this.

Pull yourself together, stop crying, and be friendly to her is what you have to do to get her back. Also, you can not have any contact with her at all. If you do, she will be the one in charge. So stop calling her and she will be the one calling you because she missing you.

HOW TO GET YOUR EX-BOYFRIEND OR EX-GIRLFRIEND BACK IN YOUR LIFE

Are you are biting your nails to figure out how you could reconcile with your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend? Well, you are not going to find solutions in this way, you are only going to damage your nails. If you are sure that you do not want to move on, then pay attention to what follows.

Every detail and steps that you take count. Make sure that you don't complicate things this time.

How to get an ex back?

You both broke up for a particular reason or reasons. This is what you should be thinking about carefully. Getting back together would imply not making the same mistakes again. This is really vital if you want your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend back forever.


You need to be prepared mentally to tackle problems wisely if they were to re-surface. Your ex would see that you have become stronger and more mature indeed and this would make your relationship stronger.

You will surely miss your ex after the break up. However, learn to control yourself because you should not appear hopeless in front of your ex. Being desperate and hopeless is not going to make him or her want to get back with you. Do not think that your ex will come back to you out of pity. On the contrary, if you appear to be a confident person, he or she can actually change his or her mind. Also, do things that will keep your mind calm and happy because you need to give your ex that impression.

However, if you want to reconcile with your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend by making the latter feel jealous, you should know that this does not always work. He or she might think that you have moved on and you are not interested in getting back together.

So, be strong, happy and confident. These are the right ingredients to attract your ex back to you.

5 SIGNS IF YOU THINK YOUR PARTNER IS CHEATING ON YOU

Cheating is a reality in relationships and if you suppose your partner may be cheating on you, you need to be on the guard for evidence. Be aware that you may not see any signs at all that there is unfaithfulness going on. Your partner may be so clever that they have concealed their tracks really good.


Of course you will have those that are not very skilled at covering up or perhaps they just don't care. Which ever category your partner fits in, you need to make totally sure they are cheating on you. You don't want to confuse something as a sign only to find you are very wrong. Be sure you have some strong evidence before you proceed. Listed below are 5 clues of a cheating partner.


1. Does your partner appear to be spending more time online while you are off doing something else or have gone to bed? They could be having an online affair or communicating with someone they could be having an affair with.

2. A big one could be cell phone conversations. What could it signify when your partner gets a phone call and leaves the room to talk? If you ask about it and they start to get mysterious then it could be a problem.

3. If your friends know that your partner has been cheating on you, they may not know how to approach you about it. This may make them act strange around you and your partner.

4. What do you do if your partner accuses you of having an affair and your not? They may be feeling guilty about what they are doing and feel the need to pass it off on you.

5. Have they changed how they dress up or look around you or when going out? If your partner seems to dress up nicer than usual when going out with friends, are they meeting someone else? If they are trying to look nice for you that's one thing but going out of their way to look good otherwise could be a problem.

Remember, any of these signs could be a sign they are cheating on you, but you need to have factual proof before making accusations. You do not want to make a fool of yourself to your partner.

HOW TO WIN YOUR LOVE BACK

If you are feeling stranded after breaking up with your loved one and want to see about getting them back, you could have a lot of work ahead of you. Actually the amount of work involved will be dependent on the reason for the break up. If you had cheated on your partner that would obviously be at the extreme end of trouble, you would have trust issues to deal with.

Your first step at getting your ex back would be to just leave them alone at first, wait a few weeks before you try to contact them so you do not look like you are desperate to get them back. If you start looking desperate and clingy with your ex it just won't look good for you.


Take this time to work out your problems and get over the break up. This can be an emotional ordeal for both parties so don't think it's just you that is having a hard time. Right now you are not thinking as clearly as you should and after you get past your break up you should be doing better.

Don't stay home thinking about the situation you are in, you may start to get depressed and get nothing accomplished. If you can get out of the house with your family and friends, this will speed up your healing process so you can move on. Taking your mind off your troubles is a sure fire way to recuperate.

After thinking over about why the two of you broke up and you find that you were to blame, then you need to take ownership and make apologies to your ex. When the time is right and you make your first call to them, apologize from the heart, saying you have had time to think and now understand what you have done. These would be your first steps at getting back together with your ex.

HOW TO GET YOUR EX-GIRLFRIEND BACK FROM A NEW BOYFRIEND?

Has your girlfriend dumped you for another guy? Maybe she dumped you and now she's hooked up with someone else, but you want her back. Well, there are a few ways to go about this situation, and it all starts with figuring out what went wrong. What did you do that drove her away? And most importantly, how can you fix the parts of your relationship that broke?


The first and often hardest step in this process is acceptance. You have to accept that your ex-girlfriend isn't with you anymore - and that she's with a new boyfriend. If she is happy, it may be time for you to move on. But if she's with the new boyfriend because she just wants someone to fill the hole that your breakup left, you do have a chance of getting her back. The key here is not to be aggressive; be available to her, but don't force her to try to talk to you if she needs space.

The second step is to focus on yourself for a while. Make some new friends. Expand your list of hobbies - and get involved in the ones you currently have. Forget about your relationship troubles and women in general. Don't date. Just set some goals for yourself to make positive changes in your life. Time away from your ex will give you the space you need to reassess your own situation and decide what's best for you. By then, you may not even be wondering "how to get my ex girlfriend back from a new boyfriend".

After a couple months, evaluate the situation again. Do you still want to get back together with your ex-girlfriend, or are you ready to leave that relationship behind? If you do want to get back with her, you need to figure out how she feels about you, but again, don't be aggressive. If she is still communicating with you, talk to her, be available to her. Listen to her. Figure out what she wants (which may be you) and show her that you still want her, but don't come off as desperate and needy. Those are two things that will drive anyone away. It's human nature.

FORGET YOUR HEART AND USE YOUR HEAD!

Are you looking for a way to win back love? If you are, you need to start using your head and stop using your heart. It is just that easy.

As you are listening to your heart, it is telling you to stop everything you are doing and find your ex and make him listen to what you want to tell him know matter if he wants to hear it or not. Your heart has told you all your ex has to do is hear how much you love them and want them back and you know they will take you back as soon as they hear this. Wrong.


If you listen to your head to win back love it would never tell you to do the things talked about before. Your head should be telling you to back off, get yourself in control, and take your time. Can you figure out which one to listen to. Yes, your head.

So, at this time, just leave your ex alone, Do not call them, Do not go out and try to run into them any where you know they hang out, do not right them a love litter. Another words, do not contact them in any way at this time.

If you do contact them, you are only make yourself look desperate, you will become a pain in the back side, and no person wants to be around a desperate person. So, let your ex wonder what you are up to and where you have been.

The way to win back love is to think rational and be in control. Only then will your ex start to give you time in there live. No matter how much you love your ex, do not let your heart influence you. Control your passion and emotions to help win back love.

The help you need is the "Magic of Making Up", an excellent e-book by T. Dub Jackson. In the in The magic of making you will find some very simple ways and methods that will show you how to get your ex back. They are plain suggestions and real down to earth methods although some what unconventional to help you to get your ex back in days - not months or years. The get ex back formula is for people having an intense urge to find out ways and means to make up for their loss. They are no way black magic but works like magic to get your ex back.

HOW TO HANDLE YOUR SECOND MARRIAGE PROBLEM

Second Marriage is a very good option to reset your life after a tragedy of the first relationship. Living again as a couple can prove to be beneficial as well as disastrous if not handled properly.

There are a lot of things to be considered before you finalize the decision of a second marriage. Make sure no hasty decisions are taken so that you can have a happy and smooth second marriage.


    * It is very important to analyze your first marriage. Your performance in your previous relationship will create the base for your second marriage. Considering yourself and analyzing your strong and weak points is very essential. Try and get answers to all the unasked questions before you decide to marry again.

    * Do not forget to actually think over the fact that what kind of a guy you really want to get married to. It is significant for you to lay down the characteristics you want in your spouse especially in a second marriage. Don't just settle in name or for wrong reasons like desperate need for companionship. Take the singles life to be a way to freedom and not loneliness.

    * Second marriage can prove to be an obligation after living a singles life for a period of time. Freedom that you have been enjoying for quite sometime now will be gone. There will be new responsibilities knocking at your door that has to be accepted readily.

    * Learn how to avoid differences with your partner. It is important to work hard towards making your second marriage a successful one.

Problems with your new marriage won't occur immediately. Make sure you don't become too demanding or compromising. This may later lead to major problems in the relationship.

Equality and unconditional love and respect are very essential when it comes to a new relationship.

Some positive aspects on how to handle your new marriage includes:

    * Showing a positive attitude towards your spouse, life and your relationship is very important. Happiness should not be forced and love should come straight from the heart. Encourage your partner to focus on the relationship as well and make it work equally.

    * Keep a good communication level from the start. Be open about your feelings from the very first day. This will help you in strengthening the roots of your relationship. Talk out all your issues whether it's trivial or big. Be a good listener and try and be sensitive to the needs of your partner.

    * Accepting each other's weaknesses and differences will help you go a long way and also make your relationship special with your spouse. Also try and respect each others decisions.

    * In case of an argument, try and settle things as soon as possible. Make sure it doesn't stretch for too long.

A common religious belief and similar goals can avoid a lot of arguments with your spouse. In case the new spouse has children from the first marriage then try and learn some good step-parenting skills. Make them feel special and comfortable and try and understand how important they are for your partner.

Set your priorities straight and accept them as a part of the family. Be serious and prepared before opting for a second marriage. Don't forget to put sacrifice, love and respect in your agenda.

SELECT ONLINE CAREER THAT YOU LOVE MOST

The wonders of the internet have proven themselves once again with it being a source of people's income. These online jobs, unlike traditional work, permit people to work for those who are practically thousands of cities away. Most of the time, online jobs also allow people to stay at home to work. Moreover, it's even less costly for these online workers because sometimes, what they only need is a brain, a working laptop/computer at home and a very reliable internet connection.


There are many streams of income that will make you profit from online stints. Some will pay better. Some will also take less time and energy. But the kind of online work that is very rewarding is one wherein you still have to put an extra effort and concern for the quality of results you submit to your employer.

Here is a list of some of the best ways to benefit financially from the internet:

Online Businessmen

So many sites encourage selling online. Among these are eBay and Multiply. But for an entrepreneur who wants to have his own website for exclusivity, he can buy a domain name, set it up, and start making money. For those who prefer this route, always remember to pay for a web host that is credible. This will not cost as much as those businesses that sell online, because you wouldn't need any salespeople and warehouse space.


Write Articles

Freelancing is preferred by many because most are able to manage their own time, and choose their own projects. So many freelance opportunities have popped up online that can also help thicken your wallet. Finding these kinds of opportunities is no longer hard. Just search the job listings for writers. Be honest about your work schedule and always complete the job with the best quality and also within the deadline.

Affiliate Marketing

Sell products that do not belong to you. Yes, that's possible with affiliate marketing. There is no need for a website and a capital. What you need is a registration in forums for you to be able to use your persuasive skills to sell products. Because when you are successful in encouraging the other users in that same forum, the company that you are selling for is also going to give you a good percentage of that selling price.

The internet is one that is linked to a worldwide network where people of different cultures and beliefs can just sit down, work together in the genius that is the World Wide Web.

REALTOR BLOG'S LOVE? LET'S SEE THE GOOD, THE BAD, AND THE UGLY

As a realtor, your blog can be a valuable tool to help attract people to your website and express yourself in a more casual way than you can on your professional website; or, your blog can be a boring collection of graphs and pasted articles from other sources that say nothing about you or your area of expertise. Unfortunately, many blogs seem to fall into this latter category because many realtors think that their blog needs to be only about real estate and many of them seem to think that clients would rather read real estate news written by an "authority" than hear what their realtor has to say.


Your blog can be looked at as an extension of your personality; it can be an ideal way to let your clients (or potential clients) get an idea about who you are as a person. Don't just blog about boring old stats, let people know what's going on in your area! The average person doesn't want to read a pile of graphs about housing statistics; they'd rather have you tell them in your own words.

Blogging can also establish you as an expert in some kind of niche properties. Do you know all about restoring Victorian-era homes? Are you an expert in horse ranches? You can use your blog to showcase some of your knowledge about things that you have expansive background or training in. The big benefit here is that search engines will recognize that your blog is full of expert information


Search engines also don't like copy/pasted articles, because they are not unique content. So, you will need to actually write your own posts or have someone write them for you. You can write about current events going on nationally or in your area, but summarize what the issue is and add a link to the article about it and incorporate your opinion or original perspective on it. No one is going to come to your blog to read about articles that are all over the news sites. Blogs that are updated frequently are looked upon more favourably by search engines; however, it is better to only make an original post once a week than it is to post regurgitated information three times a week.

So, don't be scared of sharing your voice through your blog posts; write the way you speak and let your personality shine through. Don't be afraid to be funny, though keep your humour appropriate. Your blog can help you connect with clients and show them that you're a person with an opinion, not just a pretty face.

LOVE AND SAVE YOUR CHILD FROM CYBER BULLIES, WHAT TO DO?

The Internet is a wonderful thing and the sort of invention that we all wish we had when we were at school. Revising for tests and completing homework would have been so much easier with sites like Wikipedia and Google to help us out.

Staying in touch with our friends would also have been so much easier had we been able to use Facebook and Twitter.

Of course, with the immediacy that these websites offer comes the inherent dangers also. Safety online is of paramount importance and it's vital to realise that just because someone claims to be one thing, such as a friend or teenager, they may not necessarily be so.


The instant nature of the Internet also means that you can reach people within seconds, and they can reach you whether you want them to or not. This has helped in many ways, but has also caused problems with increases of bullying. Online bullying is known as Cyberbullying, and is just as big a problem as bullying at school or on the street. In fact, Cyberbullying can be worse because the bullies can reach you wherever you are.

If someone you do not want to speak to is attempting to bully you online you should block all contact with them. Remove them from Facebook, adjust your privacy settings so they can't contact you and never contact them. Block them from chat programs such as MSN and Yahoo as well. If you ignore Cyberbullies, they will give up as they will have no way of bullying you. If you have given out any personal details, be sure to tell an adult and change your mobile and email address if need be.

Save our Childrens from Cyber Bullying!

5 SIMPLE TIPS TO GET YOUR EX BOYFRIEND BACK

It is not easy for you and your ex boyfriend to get back after a breakup. However, there are a few tips that you can follow to get him back again. So many people don't succeed in winning their ex back. It's not really our fault. No one ever handed us an instruction book when we first started dating that taught us how to handle a breakup. Much less, how to get someone back after a breakup. If you want your ex boyfriend back, these 5 simple steps should help achieve your goal:

1.The first tip which will help you and your ex boyfriend to get back together is get your head straight. You need to get rid of the negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.


Don't let your emotion and especially depression keep you down. You can't achieve a goal, if you can't keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Negative thoughts are destructive behavior.

2.Accept that the relationship in its prior form is over. All the wishing in the world isn't going to allow you to go back in time and change the way things happened. You can't let your mind keep wandering into the past.

Focus on what is going on now. If you realize that the relationship of the past wasn't perfect, you're heading in the right direction. You're laying the foundation for you and your ex boyfriend to get back. Remember you are most likely glossing over all the bad stuff that happened. Think about this; the relationship wasn't broken in a day. Don't expect to be able to fix it in a day either.

3.Don't pester your ex boyfriend. Guys just don't like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to seek comfort by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don't continuously call him, text message him, email him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. Give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting him back.


4.Become an object of desire. If you can, get some new makeup. Buy some new clothes. Try a new hairstyle. If you've picked up a few pounds, start exercising and eating healthy. When you look good on the outside, you're going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. By feeling good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you're confident and happy, you will project this image to others. You will become an object of desire to men. This includes your ex boyfriend.

5.Take it slow. If you followed steps 1-4 your ex boyfriend at some point will probably get in touch with you. Imagine his surprise when he sees the 'new' you from step 4. He will probably be sorry that he broke up with you. Keep your physical contact with him to a minimum if you do see him.

Seeing you looking your best and seeing that you've become confident and happy will make him desire you. If you limit your physical contact with him, it will drive him crazy. It will probably help to ensure that you don't just jump back into a relationship only to breakup a short time later.

These tips may not be easy for you to do at first. You may want to give in and call him or see him, but you have to resist the temptation.

HOW TO HANDLE SHY IN THE FIRST MEETING

Do you love the tone of the profile that is displayed in front of you? You can ask if this feeling is mutual and if it actually is, make some effort to arrange for a get together. Free on line dating is an essential useful resource for shy woman or man who is making efforts to seek a life spouse.
The online site offers you basic ideas and presents points on being familiar with whether you are allowing your dating online contact to feel comfortable. Keep in mind, the first phase to a great experience is the level of comfort with one another. At the end of the meeting, if you have a marvelous feeling over it; the free online dating internet site has likely gone smooth.


Things You Require To Do In The First Meeting

Precisely what should you wear, where should you go and precisely what should you say, these are commonly the queries progressing through your thoughts the second you make your mind up to meet up the individual you know through the on line chat website. Hope the free on line dating internet site become your guide in helping you creating a great impression. You must decide upon destination and outfit which enables both of you to meet up discreetly. It would not matter whether you are on a limited budget outing, you shouldn't adjust facts to fit with the situation. A simple dinner, a stroll on the seaside or an ice cream near a local park can do just great. The main consideration is the two of you should be comfortable and receptive to know more about one another well. If you feel at ease, think through subjects to begin the talk and slowly allow yourself to relax as the conversation flows the natural way. There may perhaps be some moments of quietness, be comfortable with it. Free online dating website offers you points and discussion boards which will assist you deal with the meeting with ease.

Right After The Very First Meeting

You have already seen one another and are on one another's thoughts, compose an email. Speak about the way you felt following the meet up and exactly how you prefer to take the romance ahead. At this time, you must make clear your thoughts about each other's suitability. Enable a pace to be set by two of you. You should never assume that you are madly in love or in a continual relationship at this point. Be prepared for the probability that the other individual is not ready to move the relationship to the next level. Do not ever treat this as being rejected. Rather, go back to the internet site and search for other individuals, there are so many choices that you can consider.

FINDING RIGHT MEN TO DATE AFTER A PAINFUL BREAKUP

Ladies, are you having trouble finding men to date after you've gone through a painful breakup? You might know how important it is to get back on that horse and start riding but it's not always all that simple to find the right candidate. What are some creative places you can start checking out your options and find a real man to date?

Try these four great ideas and you'll be surprised at how quickly you could be knocking on the door of Mr. Right Now, if not Mr. Right altogether.


1) Religious organizations offer singles groups and misers on a fairly regular basis. If your faith is important to you this is a great way to meet someone who shares your faith and know that you have at least one thing in common. There's also some degree of safety in meeting potential dates in a group setting and a public place. You are able to get to know one another in a safe environment before venturing out on a date with just the two of you.


2) Community groups for singles. Believe it or not community groups are great to meet a broad cross section of the population. You'll meet all kinds of men from different walks of life and many of them will be prime relationship material (assuming of course that you're ready to move on and build a new relationship with someone).

3) Business and professional dating services. Believe it or not, if you are looking to date only professionals in businesses or careers that are similar to yours most larger cities have dating services, groups, and/or organizations that are designed specifically to help you meet eligible candidates. Just keep in mind that these are men who are also seeking like minded women. There's nothing like common ground, careers, or interests to give you something to build on when looking for that perfect someone to start dating.

4) Internet dating sites. This is another great method of "vetting" potential dates. Online dating sites provide some degree of anonymity so that you don't have to worry about someone showing up at your front door in the middle of the night. It also gives you a little time to get to know someone a little bit before agreeing to meet. As society becomes more and more insulated from meeting new people, this is becoming a much more popular medium for meeting new men and potential matches.

HOW TO FIXING BAD RELATHIONSHIP

How many times has this question been presented? There are many relationships that went to a break up that could have been saved if the couple had stepped back to look at what was going on between them. They may have been able to see that what they where doing was the wrong way to fix their problems.

One of the first things a couple should work on is good communication skills. If the two can not effectively talk to each other, how can they expect to workout any problems they may have. If you are having problems with your boyfriend can you talk to him about it and carry on a decent exchange of ideas or does it become a shouting match?



If a couple have been together for a while they can get to the point where communication starts to slip, this is something you must constantly work on. Even talking together about the days events, how things are going at work and what's happening in the world are subjects that get you started. Don't come home and each of you go about your own thing without much interaction.

To go along with talking, you need to be a good listener. This is when you hear what the other is saying and catch what's going on in their world. If your partner has something to say to you give them the respect of paying attention or you may miss something very important. Again, as a couple that has been together for some time, the listening skills can slip, it is sometimes called selective hearing.

Work on your communication skills and you can avoid having to fix a bad relationship. There will be problems that come up but being the two of you are able to talk to each other the problems are easier to fix.