If you are feeling stranded after breaking up with your loved one and want to see about getting them back, you could have a lot of work ahead of you. Actually the amount of work involved will be dependent on the reason for the break up. If you had cheated on your partner that would obviously be at the extreme end of trouble, you would have trust issues to deal with.
Your first step at getting your ex back would be to just leave them alone at first, wait a few weeks before you try to contact them so you do not look like you are desperate to get them back. If you start looking desperate and clingy with your ex it just won't look good for you.
Take this time to work out your problems and get over the break up. This can be an emotional ordeal for both parties so don't think it's just you that is having a hard time. Right now you are not thinking as clearly as you should and after you get past your break up you should be doing better.
Don't stay home thinking about the situation you are in, you may start to get depressed and get nothing accomplished. If you can get out of the house with your family and friends, this will speed up your healing process so you can move on. Taking your mind off your troubles is a sure fire way to recuperate.
After thinking over about why the two of you broke up and you find that you were to blame, then you need to take ownership and make apologies to your ex. When the time is right and you make your first call to them, apologize from the heart, saying you have had time to think and now understand what you have done. These would be your first steps at getting back together with your ex.
Your first step at getting your ex back would be to just leave them alone at first, wait a few weeks before you try to contact them so you do not look like you are desperate to get them back. If you start looking desperate and clingy with your ex it just won't look good for you.
Take this time to work out your problems and get over the break up. This can be an emotional ordeal for both parties so don't think it's just you that is having a hard time. Right now you are not thinking as clearly as you should and after you get past your break up you should be doing better.
Don't stay home thinking about the situation you are in, you may start to get depressed and get nothing accomplished. If you can get out of the house with your family and friends, this will speed up your healing process so you can move on. Taking your mind off your troubles is a sure fire way to recuperate.
After thinking over about why the two of you broke up and you find that you were to blame, then you need to take ownership and make apologies to your ex. When the time is right and you make your first call to them, apologize from the heart, saying you have had time to think and now understand what you have done. These would be your first steps at getting back together with your ex.
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