When it comes to healing a broken heart from love the number one thing you have to keep in mind is that it will take time. I know this is the last thing you want to hear. No one wants to stay in pain any longer than they have to. While it will take time to move on and feel better, there are some things you can do to make things go a little easier.Use these tips to get over it and move on: They will take effort .. lots of effort on your part... but putting that effort in will pay off.
1. First of all, don't sit back and wait for your hurt to heal, be proactive.
Take your life by the reigns, take control and make some changes. What is it that you've been putting on the back burner? A new job, vacation, a new look? Whatever it is, do it. It will make you feel like a new person, which will help you move on a little more quickly.
2. Only allow yourself a limited amount of 'wallowing' time.
Sure, most people will mope around for a few days, or even a week, but that's it. Don't hide from the world. You may not be ready to start dating, and you probably shouldn't, but that doesn't mean you can't hang out with your friends and just start moving on with your life, even if it's only baby steps.
3. While you don't want to wallow in a sea of 'what if's' (see step 2) it is a good idea to spend some time trying to figure out what went wrong ... not so you can get your ex back, but so you can hopefully avoid making the same mistakes the next time around...and make no mistake, if you allow it, there will be a next time and another love. Thanks for your time , Love and respect for stopping here in World in My Mind
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